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When God created woman, He was working late on the6th day.
And angel came by and said “Why spend so much time on that one?”
and The Lord answered:
“Have you seen all the specification I have to meet to shape her?
She must be washabel, but not made of plastic, have more than 200 thousands moving parts which all must be replaceble and she must function on all kinds of food, She must be able to embrace several kids at the same time, give a hug that can heal anything from a bruised knee to a broken hears and she must do all this with only two hands.”
The angel was impressed
“Just two hands…..impossible!” And this is standard model?!
“Too much work for one day……wait until tomorrow and then complete her”
“I will not”, said The Lord. “Iam so close to complete this creation,
which will be the favourite of my heart”
“She cures herself when sick and she can work 18 hours a day”
The angel come nearer and touched the woman
“But you have made her so soft, Lord”
“She is so soft” said The Lord, “But I have also made her strong.
You cant imagine what she can endure and overcome”
“Can she think?” The angel asked.
The Lord Answered:
“Not only can she think, she can reason and negotiate”
The angel touched the woman cheek………………
“Lord, it seems this creation is leaking! You have put too many burdens on her.”
“She is not leaking, its tears” The Lord corrected the angel
“Whats it for?” asked the angel
And The Lord said:
“Tears are her way of expressing grief, her doubts, her love, her loneliness,
her suffering and her pride. This made a big impression on the angel;”
“Lord, you are genius. You thought of everything. The woman is indeed marvellous”
Indeed she is!!!
Woman has strenghts that amazes man. She can handle trouble and carry heavy burdens. She hold happiness, love and opinions. She smiles when feeling like screaming. She sings when she feels like crying,
Crys when she is happy and laughs when she is afraid.
She fights for what she belives in, stand up againts in justice.
She doesnt talk “NO” for an answer, when she can see abetter solution.
She gives herself so her family can thrive.
She takes her friend to the doctor if she is afraid.
Her love is unconditional.
She cries when her kids are victorious. She is happy when her friend do well.
She is glad when she hears of a birth or wedding.
Her heart is broken when a next kin or friends dies,
But she finds the strenght to get on with life.
She knows that a kiss and a hug can heal a broken heart.
There is only one thing wrong with her
“She forgets what she is WORTH……………”

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Kata Membawa Luka

Ada seorang anak berwatak
buruk. Ayahnya memberi dia sekantung
penuh paku,dan menyuruh memaku satu
batang paku di pagar pekarangan setiap
kali dia kehilangan kesabarannya atau
berselisih paham dengan orang lain.

Hari pertama dia memaku 37 batang
dipagar. Pada minggu-minggu berikutnya
dia belajar untuk menahan diri, dan
jumlah paku yang dipakainya berkurang
dari hari ke hari. Dia mendapatkan
bahwa lebih gampang menahan diri
daripada memaku di pagar.

Akhirnya tiba hari ketika dia tidak
perlu lagi memaku sebatang paku pun
dan dengan gembira disampaikannya hal
itu kepada ayahnya.

Ayahnya kemudian menyuruhnya mencabut
sebatang paku dari pagar setiap hari
bila dia berhasil menahan
diri/bersabar.

Hari-hari berlalu dan akhirnya tiba
harinya dia bisa menyampaikan kepada
ayahnya bahwa semua paku sudah
tercabut dari pagar.Sang ayah membawa
anaknya ke pagar dan berkata :

“Anakku, kamu sudah berlaku
baik,tetapi coba lihat betapa banyak
lubang yang ada dipagar. Pagar ini
tidak akan kembali seperti
semula. Kalau kamu berselisih paham
atau bertengkar dengan orang lain, hal
itu selalu meninggalkan luka seperti
pada pagar. atau……

“Ketika kamu melontarkan sesuatu dlm kemarahan
Kata-katamu itu akan meninggalkan
bekas lubang di hati mereka”

“Kau bisa menusukkan pisau di
punggung orang dan mencabutnya
kembali, tetapi akan meninggalkan
luka.”.

“Tak peduli berapa kali kau meminta
maaf atau menyesal, lukanya sama perihnya
seperti luka berdarah.”